The most common ways to gain more control in sex, including sex toys, are controlled orgasm and ejaculation. These are more important for women because their bodies can't produce the same amount of semen in one session. When a woman has a controlled orgasm, she has sex all the time. This means she may not want to cum at all, which will give her even more power. This is why I like to talk about orgasms. Control and ejaculation, or orgasms, are just two of many sex skills to learn. To learn them, you need to practice, but you also need to learn the science behind what is actually happening and how. It's very important that the science is well-documented. As for the sex skills, I don't have a lot to say. I don't even know what to tell you about them, but I guess you'll just have to figure it out for yourself. Finally, let's talk about how you want to go about getting them. If you want to masturbate to an orgasm, you may want to have a sex game to go along with your masturbation. Maybe you can even get yourself a sex toy or two, and use them to masturbate in front of the mirror.