Many of these products are for your vagina. I don't see a distinction between these two terms. Femaleness is not about the shape of the vulva or a specific vulva shape. It's about the entire human anatomy of the human body. So it's very important to make sure you have this information when you buy these products. Femaleness is all about the overall structure of the body. That is what the vulva is made of, the labia, the labia majora, the clitoris, the labia minora. It's all about all the parts of the human body.
There are many products out there for women's sexual pleasure that are not appropriate for men. These products are all marketed for women, but not for men. So it's important to talk to your doctor about the different products for men and women that they can recommend.
As an individual, you may think, "I'm just going to go buy it and use it myself," but it's going to be easier if you're not in a relationship. If you're alone and don't have anyone to talk to, then you can talk to your partner about this.
Sometimes, men who have an erection before or during sex will not climax, so they may feel frustrated.